Psychosexual and Relationship Therapy
Essex · Online

Support with intimacy, sex, relationships, and problematic pornography and sex use.

I offer highly specialist therapy for people who are finding that sex, intimacy, or communication has become stressful, confusing, or difficult to talk about.

COSRT Registered Psychosexual Therapist

COSRT Registered Relationship Therapist

Member of the British Society of Sexual Medicine

Therapeutic Services at a glance

Psychosexual Therapy
Relationship Therapy
Problematic Porn and Sex Use
Kink, Fetish & Sexual Diversity
Sex and the Fuller Figure

People come to see me when:

sex has become anxiety-provoking or disappointing
desire has changed, disappeared, or feels mismatched
porn or sexual behaviour feels problematic or out of control
sex feels painful, boring, pressured, or disconnected
communication has broken down or stopped altogether
body image is affecting confidence, pleasure, or intimacy
often there is a sense of shame and frustration

My approach

I am a specialist Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist with a supportive, warm and welcoming approach.

With a background in journalism, communication is at the heart of my work. I see communication as central to the relationship we have with ourselves, and to how we connect with others: emotionally, physically, and sexually.

My work is integrative and contemporary, drawing on clinical sexology, relationship therapy, and evidence-based practice.

This is not a one-size-fits-all model, and it is not about quick fixes. Therapy is an invitation to explore, understand, and reduce shame, at a pace that feels right for you.

“The thought of seeing a therapist for the first time, particularly in a sex-related capacity, was daunting. Jacqueline’s professionalism and warmth helped put me at ease. I began to find it relatively easy to open up, and I came away with a renewed sense of self-worth and confidence.”
— Former client

Professional experience

I have completed accredited training in Clinical Sexology, Relationship Therapy and Counselling.

Alongside my private practice, I have worked as a Psychosexual Therapist with Relate, supporting clients across private practice, the NHS, the Royal Air Force, and the University of Cambridge.

This experience allows me to offer specialist, ethical, and well-grounded therapeutic support.

Psychosexual Therapy

Psychosexual therapy supports people with sexual function concerns such as:

erection difficulties
delayed ejaculation or no ejaculation
early ejaculation
orgasm difficulties
pain during penetration
low desire or libido

Psychosexual Therapy also offers space to explore sexuality more broadly.

I have a particular interest in helping people develop a more compassionate and connected relationship with their bodies.

I take time to research and plan every client with care.

Relationship Therapy

Problematic Porn and Sex Use

Relationship therapy supports all types of relationships and relational concerns, including:

desire discrepancy
communication difficulties
conflict or emotional distance
infidelity or ruptures of trust
navigating kink or fetish within relationships
sexual difficulties within a relationship
separation or relationship transitions

Having worked in high-pressure newsroom environments, I bring skills in supporting relationships under stress, during crisis, and in emotionally charged situations.

I work with people who feel their sexual behaviour or porn use has become problematic, distressing, or difficult to manage.

You might describe yourself as a “sex addict” or “porn addict”; in my practice, I use the term problematic porn and sex use, reflecting a contemporary approach.

This work focuses on understanding patterns, reducing shame, increasing awareness, and supporting healthier, more connected sexual experiences rather than offering labels.

My work is personalised and informed by current research and evidence-based practice. My approach is sex-positive and behaviour-informed.

“Jacqueline was a very good listener and remained neutral throughout, creating a safe and balanced space for both partners. Jacqueline struck the right balance when working with couples experiencing difficulties, which made the process feel fair, supportive, and constructive.”

— Former client

Who I work with

I work with people of all genders, sexualities, body sizes, and relationship structures.

My practice is modern, inclusive, sex-positive, and grounded in respect for sexual and relational diversity.

I also welcome referrals from healthcare professionals, therapists, and organisations seeking specialist psychosexual or relationship therapy support.

Ways of working

Sessions are offered:

in person (North Essex)
online
telephone

If you are looking for a therapist with insight, specialist training, and clinical experience, and you would like support with sex, pornography, intimacy, or relationships, you are very welcome to get in touch.