Questions Answered

What are your top tips when it comes to talking about sex?

Share what you like, enjoy, or do not. What would you like to try?
Let your body do the talking, show your partner/s how you engage in solo sex, take their hands and guide them to where you want.
Take heart from the fact that many people struggle with talking about sex. Let me help you.

Can you explain the difference between sex and intimacy?

Sex is generally thought to be about sexual function, like the act of vaginal, anal, or manual (using hands) intercourse, or oral-genital stimulation. Solo sex is also a thing. For some people sex equals kissing, holding hands, using AI or the use of fantasy. Some people have no interest in sex whatsoever. Others are more interested in intimacy, which is the closeness that is felt when the private and personal self are shared. Intimacy is about feeling, emotion, warmth, and connection. Some people feel more intimate playing chess with another rather than taking their clothes off for a quickie. We are all different. We are all unique. That is what makes us so special.

How do you work?

I have experience as a Psychosexual Therapist at Relate with NHS, Royal Air Force and University of Cambridge clients.
We work together and progress is reviewed every six-sessions to honour where you have been, and keep you on track of where you would like to go. A contract will be signed and payment is made before the Initial Consultation. There is a 72-hour cancellation policy. If less notice is given, or none at all, this will result in full payment of the session.
I attend supervision twice-per-month. I choose to have more supervision than the minimum required as I believe it is an important part of providing good therapy.

What are your fees?

Choosing to begin psychosexual or relationship therapy is often a considered decision. Many people take time to reflect before committing, particularly when the work feels sensitive, complex, or difficult to articulate.

My fees reflect specialist clinical work, careful preparation, and a deliberately small client caseload so I can offer a more personalised, high-quality service.

Psychosexual Therapy

Individual (1 hour): £75 (1.5 hours): £115
Two or more people (1 hour): £85 (1.5 hours): £125

Longer sessions can be helpful when there is a lot to explore, when you are attending as a couple/throuple, or when you prefer a more spacious pace.

Relationship Therapy

1 hour: £85
1.5 hours: £125
2 hours: £155

Longer sessions can be particularly useful for couples/throuples who want enough time to slow things down, feel properly heard, and work in depth without feeling rushed.

Problematic Porn and Sex Use

1 hour: £75

Appointments are available 10am–9pm on weekdays.
Saturday morning appointments are increasingly popular — if that could work for you, please get in touch.

A note on how I work: I take time to plan and craft each session with care. I also choose to work with a small, select client base, so that the work remains personalised, thoughtful, and clinically held.

Fees FAQ

1) Do I need a longer session?

Not always — many people begin with a one-hour session. Longer sessions can be helpful for couples, for more complex presentations, or when you would like the work to feel more spacious and unhurried. We can decide together what fits best.

2) How many sessions will I need?

This varies. Some people come for focused work over a shorter period; others prefer a longer-term, exploratory approach. After the first one or two sessions, we can discuss an initial plan that feels realistic and tailored to your needs.

3) Why do you keep a small client base?

Because it allows me to prepare properly, hold the work with care, and offer a more personalised service. Many clients value a pace and depth that doesn’t feel rushed or formulaic.

Further Information

In cases outside the scope of my sexological expertise, I may need to make a referral to a trusted colleague, or other health professional, who might be better placed to help. I would only do this with your written consent.

If you are suffering severe anxiety or severe clinical depression I would not be best able to help, as that would be outside of my professional competency.

GDPR/Data Protection Act 2018

I am the data controller registered with the Information Commissioner's Office and hold a current Data Protection Registration Certificate ZB870888.

I am a Registered Member of The College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists. Some excellent information about therapy can be found here: https://www.cosrt.org.uk/factsheets.